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Umm Salamah (the wife of the Prophet) said: I heard the Messenger of ALLAH
(Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) saying: "There is no Muslim who is stricken
by a calamity and says what ALLAH has commanded him - 'Indeed we belong to
ALLAH, and indeed to Him we will return; O ALLAH, reward me for my
affliction and compensate me with that which is better' - except that ALLAH
will grant him something better in exchange." When Abu Salamah [her former
husband] passed away, I said to myself: "What Muslim is better than Abu
Salamah?" I then said the words, and ALLAH gave me the Messenger of ALLAH
(Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) in exchange. (Sahih Muslim Sharief)
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~The only lasting beauty is the beauty of the heart
From: <>
Date: Wed, Aug 1, 2012 at 3:51 PM
Subject: Bismillah [MuslimCity]: A truly inspirational story
To: eGroup For Muslims Around The World <muslimcity@yahoogroups.com>
Subhanallah
Below is a must read link to a truly inspirational story
http://veiledmuslimah.
o-look-at-his-wife-a-moving-
Shahnaaz Bemath's Blog
ISLAM is not about we are better THAN you. ISLAM is all about ''let me show
you something that is better FOR you."
The Husband Who Was Too Shy To Look At His Wife (a moving story)
This story was recounted by Prof. Khalid Al-Jubeir, consulting
cardiovascular surgeon, in one of his lectures:
Once I operated on a two and a half year old child. It was Tuesday, and on
Wednesday the child was in good health. On Thursday at 11:15 am - and I'll
never forget the time because of the shock I experienced - one of the nurses
informed me that the heart and breathing of the child had stopped. I hurried
to the child and performed cardiac massage for 45 minutes and during that
entire time the heart would not work.
Then, ALLAH decreed for the heart to resume function and we thanked HIM. I
went to inform the child's family about his condition. As you know, it is
very difficult to inform the patient's family about his condition when it's
bad. This is one of the most difficult situations a doctor is subjected to
but it is necessary. So I looked for the child's father whom I couldn't
find. Then I found his mother. I told her that the child's cardiac arrest
was due to bleeding in his throat; we don't know the cause of this bleeding
and fear that his brain is dead. So how do you think she responded? Did she
cry? Did she blame me? No, nothing of the sort. Instead, she said
"Alhamdulillah" (All Praise is due to ALLAH) and left me.
After 10 days, the child started moving. We thanked ALLAH and were happy
that his brain condition was reasonable. After 12 days, the heart stopped
again because of the same bleeding. We performed another cardiac massage for
45 minutes but this time his heart didn't respond. I told his mother that
there was no hope. So she said: "Alhamdulillah. O ALLAH, if there is good in
his recovery, then cure him, O my Lord."
With the grace of ALLAH, his heart started functioning again. He suffered
six similar cardiac arrests till a trachea specialist was able to stop the
bleeding and the heart started working properly. Now, three and a half
months had passed and the child was recovering but did not move. Then just
as he started moving, he was afflicted with a very large and strange
pus-filled abscess in his head, the likes of which I had never seen. I
informed his mother of the serious development. She said "Alhamdulillah" and
left me.
We immediately turned him over to the surgical unit that deals with the
brain and nervous system and they took over his treatment. Three weeks
later, the boy recovered from this abscess but was still not moving. Two
weeks pass and he suffers from a strange blood poisoning and his temperature
reaches 41.2°C (106°F). I again informed his mother of the serious
development and she said with patience and certainty: "Alhamdulillah. O
ALLAH, if there is good in his recovery, then cure him."
After seeing his mother who was with her child at Bed#5, I went to see
another child at Bed#6. I found that child's mother crying and screaming,
"Doctor! Doctor! Do something! The boy's temperature reached 37.6°C
(99.68°F)! He's going to die! He's going to die!" I said with surprise,
"Look at the mother of that child in Bed#5. Her child's fever is over 41°C
(106°F), yet she is patient and praises ALLAH." So she replied: "That woman
isn't conscious and has no senses". At that point, I remembered the great
Hadith of the Prophet (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam): "Blessed are the
strangers." Just two words. but indeed two words that shake a nation! In 23
years of hospital service, I have never seen the likes of this patient
sister.
We continued to care for him. Now, six and a half months have passed and the
boy finally came out of the recovery unit - not talking, not seeing, not
hearing, not moving, not smiling, and with an open chest in which you can
see his beating heart. The mother changed the dressing regularly and
remained patient and hopeful. Do you know what happened after that? Before I
inform you, what do you think are the prospects of a child who has passed
through all these dangers, agonies, and diseases? And what do you expect
this patient mother to do whose child is at the brink of the grave and who
is unable to do anything except supplicate and beseech ALLAH? Do you know
what happened two and a half months later? The boy was completely cured by
the mercy of ALLAH and as a reward for this pious mother. He now races his
mother with his feet as if nothing happened and he became sound and healthy
as he was before.
The story doesn't end here. This is not what moved me and brought tears to
my eyes. What filled my eyes with tears is what follows:
One and a half years after the child left the hospital, one of the brothers
from the Operations Unit informed me that a man, his wife and two children
wanted to see me. I asked who they were and he replied that he didn't know
them. So I went to see them, and I found the parents of the same child whom
I operated upon. He was now five years old and like a flower in good health
- as if nothing happened to him. With them also was a four-month old
newborn. I welcomed them kindly and then jokingly asked the father whether
the newborn was the 13th or 14th child. He looked at me with an astonishing
smile as if he pitied me. He then said, "This is the second child, and the
child upon whom you operated is our first born, bestowed upon us after 17
years of infertility. And after being granted that child, he was afflicted
with the conditions that you've seen."
At hearing this, I couldn't control myself and my eyes filled with tears. I
then involuntarily grabbed the man by the arm, and pulling him to my room,
asked him about his wife: "Who is this wife of yours who after 17 years of
infertility has this much patience with all the fatal conditions that
afflict her first born?! Her heart cannot be barren! It must be fertile with
Imaan!"Do you know what he said? Listen carefully my dear brothers and
sisters. He said, "I was married to this woman for 19 years and for all
these years she has never missed the [late] night prayers except due to an
authorized excuse. I have never witnessed her backbiting, gossiping, or
lying. Whenever I leave home or return, she opens the door, supplicates for
me, and receives me hospitably. And in everything she does, she demonstrates
the utmost love, care, courtesy, and compassion." The man completed by
saying, "Indeed, doctor, because of all the noble manners and affection with
which she treats me, I'm shy to lift up my eyes and look at her. So I said
to him: "And the likes of her truly deserve that from you."
The End.
ALLAH says: And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger
and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the
patient; Who, when calamity strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to ALLAH,
and indeed to HIM we will return." Those are the ones upon whom are
blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the [rightly]
guided. (Surah Al-Baqarah 155-157)
http://veiledmuslimah.
o-look-at-his-wife-a-moving-
Shahnaaz Bemath's Blog
ISLAM is not about we are better THAN you. ISLAM is all about ''let me show
you something that is better FOR you."
The Husband Who Was Too Shy To Look At His Wife (a moving story)
This story was recounted by Prof. Khalid Al-Jubeir, consulting
cardiovascular surgeon, in one of his lectures:
Once I operated on a two and a half year old child. It was Tuesday, and on
Wednesday the child was in good health. On Thursday at 11:15 am - and I'll
never forget the time because of the shock I experienced - one of the nurses
informed me that the heart and breathing of the child had stopped. I hurried
to the child and performed cardiac massage for 45 minutes and during that
entire time the heart would not work.
Then, ALLAH decreed for the heart to resume function and we thanked HIM. I
went to inform the child's family about his condition. As you know, it is
very difficult to inform the patient's family about his condition when it's
bad. This is one of the most difficult situations a doctor is subjected to
but it is necessary. So I looked for the child's father whom I couldn't
find. Then I found his mother. I told her that the child's cardiac arrest
was due to bleeding in his throat; we don't know the cause of this bleeding
and fear that his brain is dead. So how do you think she responded? Did she
cry? Did she blame me? No, nothing of the sort. Instead, she said
"Alhamdulillah" (All Praise is due to ALLAH) and left me.
After 10 days, the child started moving. We thanked ALLAH and were happy
that his brain condition was reasonable. After 12 days, the heart stopped
again because of the same bleeding. We performed another cardiac massage for
45 minutes but this time his heart didn't respond. I told his mother that
there was no hope. So she said: "Alhamdulillah. O ALLAH, if there is good in
his recovery, then cure him, O my Lord."
With the grace of ALLAH, his heart started functioning again. He suffered
six similar cardiac arrests till a trachea specialist was able to stop the
bleeding and the heart started working properly. Now, three and a half
months had passed and the child was recovering but did not move. Then just
as he started moving, he was afflicted with a very large and strange
pus-filled abscess in his head, the likes of which I had never seen. I
informed his mother of the serious development. She said "Alhamdulillah" and
left me.
We immediately turned him over to the surgical unit that deals with the
brain and nervous system and they took over his treatment. Three weeks
later, the boy recovered from this abscess but was still not moving. Two
weeks pass and he suffers from a strange blood poisoning and his temperature
reaches 41.2°C (106°F). I again informed his mother of the serious
development and she said with patience and certainty: "Alhamdulillah. O
ALLAH, if there is good in his recovery, then cure him."
After seeing his mother who was with her child at Bed#5, I went to see
another child at Bed#6. I found that child's mother crying and screaming,
"Doctor! Doctor! Do something! The boy's temperature reached 37.6°C
(99.68°F)! He's going to die! He's going to die!" I said with surprise,
"Look at the mother of that child in Bed#5. Her child's fever is over 41°C
(106°F), yet she is patient and praises ALLAH." So she replied: "That woman
isn't conscious and has no senses". At that point, I remembered the great
Hadith of the Prophet (Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam): "Blessed are the
strangers." Just two words. but indeed two words that shake a nation! In 23
years of hospital service, I have never seen the likes of this patient
sister.
We continued to care for him. Now, six and a half months have passed and the
boy finally came out of the recovery unit - not talking, not seeing, not
hearing, not moving, not smiling, and with an open chest in which you can
see his beating heart. The mother changed the dressing regularly and
remained patient and hopeful. Do you know what happened after that? Before I
inform you, what do you think are the prospects of a child who has passed
through all these dangers, agonies, and diseases? And what do you expect
this patient mother to do whose child is at the brink of the grave and who
is unable to do anything except supplicate and beseech ALLAH? Do you know
what happened two and a half months later? The boy was completely cured by
the mercy of ALLAH and as a reward for this pious mother. He now races his
mother with his feet as if nothing happened and he became sound and healthy
as he was before.
The story doesn't end here. This is not what moved me and brought tears to
my eyes. What filled my eyes with tears is what follows:
One and a half years after the child left the hospital, one of the brothers
from the Operations Unit informed me that a man, his wife and two children
wanted to see me. I asked who they were and he replied that he didn't know
them. So I went to see them, and I found the parents of the same child whom
I operated upon. He was now five years old and like a flower in good health
- as if nothing happened to him. With them also was a four-month old
newborn. I welcomed them kindly and then jokingly asked the father whether
the newborn was the 13th or 14th child. He looked at me with an astonishing
smile as if he pitied me. He then said, "This is the second child, and the
child upon whom you operated is our first born, bestowed upon us after 17
years of infertility. And after being granted that child, he was afflicted
with the conditions that you've seen."
At hearing this, I couldn't control myself and my eyes filled with tears. I
then involuntarily grabbed the man by the arm, and pulling him to my room,
asked him about his wife: "Who is this wife of yours who after 17 years of
infertility has this much patience with all the fatal conditions that
afflict her first born?! Her heart cannot be barren! It must be fertile with
Imaan!"Do you know what he said? Listen carefully my dear brothers and
sisters. He said, "I was married to this woman for 19 years and for all
these years she has never missed the [late] night prayers except due to an
authorized excuse. I have never witnessed her backbiting, gossiping, or
lying. Whenever I leave home or return, she opens the door, supplicates for
me, and receives me hospitably. And in everything she does, she demonstrates
the utmost love, care, courtesy, and compassion." The man completed by
saying, "Indeed, doctor, because of all the noble manners and affection with
which she treats me, I'm shy to lift up my eyes and look at her. So I said
to him: "And the likes of her truly deserve that from you."
The End.
ALLAH says: And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger
and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the
patient; Who, when calamity strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to ALLAH,
and indeed to HIM we will return." Those are the ones upon whom are
blessings from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the [rightly]
guided. (Surah Al-Baqarah 155-157)
Assalamu
Alaikum
Salim
Umm Salamah (the wife of the Prophet) said: I heard the Messenger of ALLAH
(Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) saying: "There is no Muslim who is stricken
by a calamity and says what ALLAH has commanded him - 'Indeed we belong to
ALLAH, and indeed to Him we will return; O ALLAH, reward me for my
affliction and compensate me with that which is better' - except that ALLAH
will grant him something better in exchange." When Abu Salamah [her former
husband] passed away, I said to myself: "What Muslim is better than Abu
Salamah?" I then said the words, and ALLAH gave me the Messenger of ALLAH
(Sallallaahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) in exchange. (Sahih Muslim Sharief)
-
~The only lasting beauty is the beauty of the heart
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